A survivor of childhood sexual abuse knows bisexuality is real, but wonders if he was born this way or made.
On Rape and Sexual Violence
Now I Lay Me Down
“We Didn’t Know.”
No one wants to hear stories of abuse, but that failure to listen has turned into a disbelief of victims.
Sandusky, Scapegoats, and Systemic Violence
I’ve avoided writing about Sandusky. In fact, until very recently I’ve avoided reading or talking about Sandusky, too. As a survivor of a serial sex abuser, I know myself well enough to know that engaging the media coverage of the case with moderation and restraint would be a challenge for me. More often than not,…
Returning to the Question; Continuing the Conversation
After years of abused men being lost in the system, we are finally figuring out concrete ways to help these men live vibrant lives.
Withdrawing from the Sandusky and Lynn Trials
After prolonged exposure to the Sandusky and Lynn trials, it’s natural for a survivor to crave the safety of his own shell.
Celebrating Fathers (And All Father-Figures)
We celebrate the strength, character, and courage of fathers who are survivors of abuse.
Hidden Ashes: A Male Survivor’s Fear of Men
Men who are afraid of other men: you are not alone.
Sandusky, Triggers, and Self-Care
Some things you can do if news coverage of abuse stories is triggering you. From the Executive Director of MaleSurvivor.
Can Any Good Come from the Sandusky Sexual Abuse Trial?
Will the Sandusky trial provide a better future or will it just feed voyeurism?
“You Shouldn’t Feel … “
When used for emotions, the word “should” can damage friendships and trust.
Into Each Life … A Little Rain
Overcoming adversity and picking up lost dreams are an important part of healing.
Making Friends
We need to start finding common ground and making friends in anti-violence efforts.
The Lost Boys
Researchers went looking for sexually exploited girls, and found boys instead.
What I Mean When I Talk About Rape Culture
Just what is rape culture? Ozy Frantz goes into detail about the cultural wellsprings from which it arises.
Male Rape Survivors and Victim-Blaming
James A. Landrith addresses toxic myths about male rape survivors.