Pete Beisner’s lack of a sex drive almost cost him his marriage, but he couldn’t let his wife go without doing everything he could to win her back.
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6 Things My Gay Friend Taught Me
Brian Shea meets an old friend for lunch. He leave the restaurant a wiser man.
An Open Letter to My Son About Sex
“Your greatest challenge will be to honor the erotic feelings and desires that will come up inside you while also staying fully present and respectful.” Janis Whitlock, in a letter to her son.
How To Entice Attractive People Into Your Bed
If it seems impossible, consider that you may be doing it wrong.
The Reluctant Intactivist
Kenny Neal Shults wants to take “An un-serious look at a the serious subject of why we circumcise our kids with two short comic films that poke fun at American secular circumcision.”
What Happens When White Fathers Leave Their Black Daughters?
Bea Hinton grew up hoping her white father would show up on the doorstep and whisk her away into a happy white family, the kind she sees on TV. That never happened. Here’s what did.
“Don’t Be Chicken”
Joe McCurdy, with a story of bullies, courage and fatherhood.
The Ugly Way Home
A lesson from a rickshaw driver and one way that Veronica Grace keeps herself in tune with those less fortunate.
A History of Secrets: What it Takes to Tell the Truth
James Michael didn’t know how to tell his wife about his addiction. A movie changed that for him.
Drowning
As his marriage breaks apart, Robert Duffer tries to capture his kids’ childhood.
America Eats Her Young
Alex Yarde grieves the impending reality of having to teach his son that by nature of his heritage, he will be feared and villainized.
How To Cut Gun Deaths By Two-Thirds
And it’s got nothing to do with regulating guns.
Exile From Guyville: A Reflection
Paul Zakrzewski—when confronted with the evidence that he wasn’t much of a man—reflects on the ongoing revolution for men.
The Texts That Will Change My Life (I Hope)
Pete Wilgoren and his wife are just two tired parents trying to make it all work at a time when the American Dream seems as far off as ever.
What Inspires You? This Should.
Watch this video for eight minutes and then go out and change the world, somewhere.
To Be a Modern Vampire
A New York late shift hotel plaza worker tells stories of his first few shifts, and why nothing will ever surprise him about people anymore.




