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Meeting single moms is easy. They’re at the park, at their kid’s school or out buying groceries. Catching the attention of one long enough to ask her out? That’s an entirely different matter. If you’re wondering why anyone would ever want to date someone with that kind of ‘baggage’, you should definitely read how a single mom can blow your mind in more ways you’ve ever thought possible.
#1: They Already Have Kids
Duh! But consider for a second what that actually means. When dating in their twenties, girls look for a husband with good genetic material and a healthy set of testicles to give them children, but single moms already have children. They crossed that off their life to-do list a long time ago, and can now date for themselves. This translates into looking for a man for love, companionship or sex. You wouldn’t be under pressure to give them kids, and your relationship with a single mom wouldn’t be troubled by any clocks ticking. You could enjoy each other without having to worry about what either of you is investing in the relationship.
#2: Single Moms Have Found Peace
Going through the trauma of divorce and having to piece together what’s left of a broken home is pretty devastating, but single moms have lived to tell the tale and found forgiveness. Forgiveness for themselves, for their ex, for all their friends and family who mistreated them during this time. And guess what? They’ve found peace and happiness because they became far less judgmental of themselves and others. Men included! They are a delight to be around as they now have a much more positive outlook on life. Such women make great partners because they’re grounded and would much rather spread love and joy than be difficult and impossible to please.
#3: Single Moms Have Better Sex
A single mom has gone through the process of carrying, delivering, and nursing a baby. She knows how spectacular the female body is and what it’s capable of. Sure, it’s got imperfections, but who cares! A mature single mom has learned to appreciate it in the best possible way, which leads to more confidence in bed and better sex. Given that they’re less critical of their own bodies, rest assured they’ll apply the same principle when it comes to you, and instead of judging your beer belly they’ll relax and let go – which is when the good stuff happens.
#4: Single Moms are not Needy
You’ll never find yourself in a relationship with a single mom who turns out to be a needy girlfriend because of one simple reason – a single mom doesn’t need you. She doesn’t need you to give her a big diamond, a fancy wedding or your precious sperm. Instead, she wants you. She has her reasons for choosing you and not someone else, and you better believe she sees something great in you that she wants in her life. A busy single mom doesn’t have time to be needy! She has doctor’s appointments to make and homework to check, not throw a tantrum because you were 15 minutes late for your date!
#5: Single Mom Don’t Waste Time
Single moms are very efficient, and they’re unlikely to waste their time on the wrong guy because they have very little of it. They are not tempted to wait for losers to commit because they have fewer lonely nights to fill and simply have better things to do. Time is a precious commodity, and a single mom knows better than to spend it on someone not worthy. She might be picky, but once she makes her choice she’ll spend what little free time she has with a man she truly enjoys, one that makes her laugh, and knows how to make her forget she has a pile of dirty dishes to do when she gets home.
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