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How do you know you’ve become a man? In the premiere episode of That’s What He Said, the men talk about when they knew they were a man as well as when they questioned their masculinity. This is a must-see video for every man and soon-to-be man.
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Video published on Oct 21, 2015
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Credits:
Created and Directed by: Anabella Casanova
Produced by: SoulPancake in association with Vacation Theory
Edited by: Cassidy Damore
Cinematography by: Kelly Moore
Production Designed by: Sage Price
Moderated by: Joshua Bitton
Participants: Saro Badalian, Joshua Bitton, Orlando Bishop, Steve Hernandez, Bayan Joonam, Maceo Paisley, Kevin Pazmino, Sage Price, Ryan Rogers, Desean Terry
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DJ wrote: And this is what is woefully missing in our world today, just basic male community where men can talk, like men, with no social implications, judgements, or moderation. They do not need to be mytho-poetic gladiators, emotional warriors of the heart, or minstrels in the woods. They don’t need jungle drums, bonfires, or to run around naked killing effigies with battle axes. They just need another guy to have their back, especially in time of need. They are the common, everyday guy, and they just need a place where they can relate to other men, what I’ve always… Read more »
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